How does one succeed in life?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What was your first impression of The Carter V by Lil Wayne? Did it feel like 2008 Wayne, when you heard the first few songs.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why do men cheat on their wives with someone extremely unattractive?

What I need from you?

Procrastinates a lot.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why do people hate fat people so much, even people who aren't exactly supermodels themselves? It seems like such a deep, passionate hatred, like they're offended by fat people just existing. Fat people didn't do anything to them, so why hate them?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If everyone in Russia dropped into holes in the ground only never to return, would that be good for NATO and international peacekeepers? Can we convince Russians to be less diabolical, so they coexist? Does Putin stink like doo doo in the commode?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why are Trump's and Khan's experiences with authorities in the US and Pakistan similar?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Does any other guys get turned on by dick pic makes you lick lips because you what to suck?

Does not procrastinate.

That's it for today.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why, after a divorce, would one still want to ruin the other one’s life?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Women like what they hear while men like what they see, it that true?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

If freedom of speech is absolute, how come it's not applied for private spaces and for the Internet?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Making more friends is a goal.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Ask yourself:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.